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A Letter to My Sons

written by Craig Finnestad September 7, 2017

This letter is in Prayers from The Water’s Edge. It was the last of the one-hundred pieces I wrote and my favorite. I wrote it on a picnic table in a park in Copenhagen, Denmark early one morning. It was written for Benjamin and David, but I’m hoping all children of God get something out of it.

Don’t let fear overwhelm you. You have missed too many shots because you haven’t taken them. Don’t be foolish and gamble, but take some risks.

Don’t be afraid of failing. Failure has more to do with not trying than not succeeding. Most all successes are at the end of a road paved with setbacks.

Each day you have choices about how to invest your time and energy. You will rarely have to choose between right and wrong, but good and better. Sometimes you will need to say “no” to good things so that you can say “yes” to better things. Those better things are God and your family and friends. Spend your best time and energy with the people you love the most. Give your life to them and receive life from them. Spend time and energy doing what you enjoy doing most. Work hard, but make things like rest, play, idleness, and exploration an important part of your life.

Be intentional in growing your relationship with God. You are His beloved. This relationship will help you with every other relationship and in all other areas of your life. God will form you into a person who is more balanced, more focused, more centered, and more at peace. Your relationship with God is the only relationship you will have that lasts forever.

Accept God’s grace. It is a gift. Be more loved by God and loving to yourself and others. Live as one who is forgiven by God and be forgiving of others. Forgive yourself too. Learn from your mistakes; don’t beat yourself up over them. Treat others like you want to be treated. Words are so powerful. Use them wisely. Encourage and bless others with your speech. Listen well. Listen to understand others. Don’t listen so that you can respond to others. Be patient. Be kind. Don’t ever let anger get the best of you.

Be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you are not. Don’t compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Don’t think the past or current scenes of your life make up the entire movie. Keep writing the script of your once-to-be-lived and never-to-be-repeated life. Enjoy the journey and finish strong.

-Daddy

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